Out of the group

So ...my bhau told me that i am a snob and he cant have a straight discussion with me. I asked him why and he just did not want to speak with me.....ouch that hurt. I was always there for him since ages.Though for the past few years, he has become independent and has a hi-flying lifestyle. me with my middle classness n a toddler dont fit into his scheme of things. is that true or is it that i am taking a myopic n a selfish view??

sure now i cant move out with my cousins who are single and married but not parents ...who can move anywhere anytime .... have the resources for it. Me on other hand has a toddler and not into spending for having dinner at a hip or happening place. i guess given the paucity of time that we all face... i dont figure into any scheme of things for them. So i guess its nobody's fault. But boy does it hurt, when they make plans and i am cooly sidelined.

Am i over reacting? do i need a life?
Well a new set of friends is not going to change things .... if we have to move away from each other ..then we will. its just that till a few years ago i was a part of that group...and now its a different story. between managing a toddler, a house, a career ... i just dont have the bandwidth to do anything else. Is this the same story with women in my situation in Mumbai ?

Life's like that!